Suki and Kirai: Likes and Dislikes (2024)

In this lesson we'll look at two particular adjectives, suki and kirai, that are used where we would use the verbs "to like" and "to dislike" in English. It's a little strange at first, but easy to understand.

Recommended Background:

• Japanese Adjectives

You might also want to take a look atsecond half of The Topic Marker "Wa" if you haven't read it yet, since it covers the thought process that will help you understand this lesson.

Interpreting the Adjectives

Both suki and kirai are na-adjectives, literally meaning something like "liked" and "disliked". We'll stick with just suki for now.

The su in suki is devoiced, same as in desu, so the pronunciation ends up sounding like "s-ki". In fact, why don't we start by just adding desu.

I don't normally like to use this kind of "pronunciation guide", but I want to make it clear that if you're used to the "silent" u in desu, this is the exact same thing. The 's(u)' should take the same amount of time as the 'ki', unlike theEnglish word "ski" where we hold the 'i' significantly longer.

Anyway, this would be the response to the question "Suki desu ka?" (Do you like it?). We'll look at questions in a bit.

When suki is used in a complete sentence, the thing that is liked is the subject of the adjective, so it is marked by ga. The person doing the liking, then, can only be the topic of the sentence, so it gets wa.

So the object of the English verb "to like" becomes the subject of the adjective suki.

If it helps at all, you could also think of sukias meaning "likable" (a more normal English adjective), in which case the partial translation would become "As for me, strawberries are likable". Either way, the logic behind it is that the property of the thing in question is relevant to a particular person.

Because we sort of think of "liking" as an action in English, it seems kind of strange that it should be an adjective in Japanese. But this is really no different from how in English we say things like "Pie is amazing" (when others might not share that opinion).

Furthermore, you'll also come across cases where the Japanese equivalent of an English adjective is a verb, so it goes both ways.

Dropping and Changing the Topic

As with any simple statement, it's more common to drop the watashi wa when stating likes and dislikes.

The thing that is liked can also take wa rather than ga.

This is an example of the contrastive wa, and would be appropriate in a context where pizza was just brought up as one of several possible choices for dinner. Here, the implication is that pizza gets your vote (in contrast to the other choices).

Finally, it's also possible to drop the subject of suki entirely and just keep the contrasted topic.

In this case, the nuance is something like "I don't know about you guys, but as for me, I like it".

Dislikes

Kirai works in exactly the same way as suki.

However, note that kirai is a much stronger word than "dislike" in English, and is usually an accurate translation for "hate" as well.

Because of this, it's common to use suki ja nai desu (or suki ja arimasen) in place of kirai desu, equivalent to replacing "hate" with "don't like" in English.

Strong Like/Dislike

To express stronger likes/dislikes, you can use daisuki and daikirai, roughly translated as "love" and "hate" respectively, but without the extra connotations of the English words. The dai here is the same kanji as the adjective ookii (big/great), so you can also think of daisuki and daikirai as meaning "greatly like" and "greatly dislike" respectively.

Although these words function identically to suki and kirai, keep in mind that they are much stronger, and are often unnecessary in situations where English speakers use "love" or "hate" as an exaggeration for "like" or "don't like".

Questions

When asking a question about what someone likes, there are several possible formats.

In the first question, the topic is "sports", giving the category for the answer to nani "what". No "I" or "you" is necessary in the question or the answer.

In the second question, the implied topic is "you", but is normally omitted nonetheless. This time, a specialized question word nan'iro (what color) is used to specify the category, so there's no reason to make "colors" the topic anyway.

There are also two possibilities for yes-no questions.

The first example is the generic question, where the implied topic is "you".

In the second case, science might be the topic of discussion, or it could be a contrastive element again. You might use this version if you're primarily talking about science (if you're taking it, if it's hard, etc.) or to compare it to another subject (i.e., history).

Note: any particular instance of "wa" could be a topic or a contrasted element. Without the context, it's sometimes hard to say exactly which it is, but the meanings are usually very similar.

Suki and Kirai as Modifiers

Since suki and kirai are na-adjectives, we can also use them to modify nouns by adding na in between.

In this case, the person who likes/dislikes the item is always implied. You can also specify the person using no.

Japanese speakers also use suki in place of "favorite" in English.

I you need to specify "favorite", you can add the adverb ichiban (1st/#1) in front of suki.

See Also

For vocab related to this lesson:

• Colors in Japanese
• Japanese Words for Food

What Next?

Making Comparisons

Conjunctions and Compound Sentences