Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (2024)

  • Entertainment

BySlashGear Staff

Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (1)

Facebook

Facebook was always about friends. But now it's also about love. The social media giants have launched Facebook Dating in the U.S., their answer to Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble and other dating apps. The new feature brings together Facebook's networking infrastructure and data to help find matches that suit you.

Advertisem*nt

For company that knows you as intimately as Facebook does, it makes total sense that a dating service launched. But with all its controversies, including an ongoing antitrust investigation, do we really want Facebook deeper into our lives?

A separate app within your app

Facebook Dating lives within your Facebook app. The extension is made available to users 18 and above, who need to opt-in and activate their Dating profile – kids on Facebook won't randomly chance upon a new dating app that lets them meet suitors in town.

Advertisem*nt

Once activated, it requests for your gender, who you're interested in, a bunch of T&Cs and several privacy settings. You can tweak your dating location, distance from you, age and height preferences. You can even indicate religious preferences and whether you're okay with your date having children.

Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (2)

It'll probably be a relief to note that information on Dating is separate from your usual Facebook app. It goes to certain lengths to make them distinct: It makes you create a whole new profile, and all the details you want shown.

It ensures your Facebook friends won't show up on Dating profile; and you can remove friends of friends from potential matches to avoid awkward encounters.

FB Dating also lets you block certain people from ever seeing your Dating profile.

Advertisem*nt

How's it different?

Much like Tinder, Facebook Dating lets you scroll through endless cards of individuals looking for dates. But instead of swiping, you click on crosses and hearts. It also has a "second look" function to backtrack and revisit matches you've passed on.

Advertisem*nt

As you'd expect, Dating takes advantage of plenty of its big brother's immense pool of data and features. The app can suggest other users who have in common events you've attended, stuff you've liked and groups followed on your main account.

A unique feature called Secret Crush lets you list individuals from your Facebook friends and Instagram Followers. If they ever join Dating, they'll be notified that someone has a "crush" on them. If they add you to their "crush" list as well, you'll be instantly matched, as if to accelerate the dating process. Besides this occasion, Facebook promises never to reveal your crushes – if you're fickle, you can have up to nine!

Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (3)

Facebook sure is bent on speeding up the matching process. The app lets interact with other users by letting you comment on their profile pictures despite not "matching" with them. This could get annoying very fast.

Advertisem*nt

It's boldly clamped down on how liberally users can use its chats, though. Chats are limited to text and GIFs only. No links, photos, payments and videos can be shared on Facebook Dating. These restrictions are a heavy-handed answer to p*rn-bot spams, unwelcome photos and other scams that have brought dating apps to infamy. This is a courageous move that could really make dating apps a healthier place. It's often been stigmatised as a platform for predatory behaviour as well as encouraging a hook-up culture.

Should we trust Facebook? tl;dr - NO

Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (4)

aodaodaodaod/Shutterstock

Where do we begin with this? On the surface, Facebook Dating seems to be putting user choice and privacy front and center. You'll notice that unlike Tinder and other apps, you can't take screenshots on Facebook Dating (although frankly, nothing stops you from grabbing your friends' phone and taking a picture of your screen). Dating also asks if you're cool with matching with "friends of friends."

Advertisem*nt

Then you start to scratch beneath the surface and realize it's not all transparent.

A big fuss about targeted advertising and other forms of AI recommendations is how algorithms are programmed to make these suggestions. What information is Facebook Dating sorting through to match you with say, Dennis from Texas?

Facebook has been alarmingly good at recommending friends you may know, and we can expect the same from Facebook Dating. While you have the option of enabling matching with profiles with mutual friends, former schools and groups, Facebook said it will still take into consideration these data when making its recommendations.

The difference is, your matches won't know this information unless you've made it public. These details just feed its pairing algorithm.

Advertisem*nt

Beyond its lack of transparency, this is still a heavily "red-flagged" company. Facebook has had a dismal track record when it comes to safeguarding users' information and privacy.

Just this week, Facebook admitted to exposing 419 million phone numbers in an open online database, because it wasn't protected with a password. In June 2018, a glitch on Instagram made private posts of 14 million users go public. Do we even need to bring up Cambridge Analytica?

Facebook clearly have a privacy issue. Facebook Dating will potentially collect intimate information about us on a level we've never seen before.

One's romantic preferences, emotions, vulnerabilities, fetishes and mistakes are all laid out on the problematic platform. If Facebook can't keep our numbers safe, can we really trust them with details of who we fancy?

Recommended

Facebook Dating: Things You Should Know Before Using It - SlashGear (2024)

FAQs

Can your friends see you on Facebook Dating? ›

Facebook Dating is different from your Facebook profile in several ways: Although you access Dating from your Facebook account, your Dating profile is different from your Facebook profile. Your current Facebook friends and anyone outside of Dating can't see your Dating profile.

What are the warnings on Facebook Dating? ›

Common warning signs include when a scammer: Wants to leave Facebook Dating immediately and use personal email or a messaging app to chat. Claims to be in love very quickly to persuade you to talk with them. Plans to visit, but claims that something bad happened and cancels plans.

Should I give my phone number out on Facebook Dating? ›

Don't include your last name, financial information, email, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your Facebook Dating profile or chat messages with someone. Report and block anyone who asks you to share this kind of personal information or anyone who you feel is suspicious.

Can you screenshot someone's Facebook Dating profile? ›

You'll notice that unlike Tinder and other apps, you can't take screenshots on Facebook Dating (although frankly, nothing stops you from grabbing your friends' phone and taking a picture of your screen). Dating also asks if you're cool with matching with "friends of friends."

Can I see if my boyfriend is on Facebook Dating? ›

Check Their Facebook Profile If you have access to your partner's Facebook profile, you can look for any signs of activity related to Facebook Dating. Check for any new profile sections related to dating or relationship status updates.

Can someone tell if I look at their Facebook page a lot? ›

Facebook doesn't let people track who views their profile. Third-party apps also can't provide this functionality. If you come across an app that claims to offer this ability, please report the app.

What is the secret on Facebook Dating? ›

When you add someone in Secret Crush, they'll be notified that an anonymous person has a crush on them. You will only match and your name will only be revealed if you both added each other as crushes. Unless there's a match, the secret crush won't know that you entered their name.

Will people know if I use Facebook Dating? ›

Your current Facebook friends and anyone outside of Dating can't see your Dating profile. For example, your Dating activities don't appear on your Facebook Feed. All conversations you have in Dating are separate from your conversations on Facebook Messenger.

Are there fake profiles on Facebook Dating? ›

In fact, it's estimated that about 10% of online dating profiles are actually bots or romance scammers. These profiles think they're being clever, but you can avoid being catfished by watching out for suspicious signs.

Why do fake dating profiles want your phone number? ›

After getting the account approved, they can pretend to be you and scam others online. Dox you. Scammers can use your phone number to gather and release sensitive information to public sites and social media. They could also dump your information on the Dark Web for others to purchase and use.

How safe is FB dating? ›

People may misrepresent themselves and their intentions in their Facebook Dating profile, including their gender or sexual orientation. This could lead to harassment or harm if you decide to meet them in person.

Should I give a girl my number on dating app? ›

I highly recommend you remove your personal information that can be found on various people search sites across the web. If you give someone your email address or phone number, they could potentially reverse-search your information and get your home address.

Can my wife see my Facebook Dating profile? ›

Although you access Dating from your Facebook account, your Dating profile is different from your Facebook profile. Your current Facebook friends and anyone outside of Dating can't see your Dating profile.

What are the rules for Facebook Dating? ›

Be at least 18 years old. Have a Facebook account in good standing that is at least 30 days old. Live in a country where Dating is available.

Can Facebook Dating see your Facebook profile? ›

Choice and Control: Facebook Dating is a dedicated space within the Facebook app, and we won't share your dating activity to your Facebook profile or News Feed. You control who on Facebook can see your Dating profile. Also, your Facebook friends won't know you're using Dating unless you choose to tell them.

Does Facebook Dating show friends of friends? ›

Access Dating from your current Facebook account on the Android or iPhone apps. You can change your Privacy Settings in Dating so that you don't see friends of friends as suggested matches.

Can you block someone from seeing you on Facebook Dating? ›

Tap General, then scroll down and tap Privacy Settings. 3. Tap Block people in Dating.

Who knows you are on Facebook Dating? ›

Well you can rest easy. Know that Facebook does not do any such thing and your Facebook dating profile will not be broadcast to anyone else.

Does Facebook Dating show you active on Messenger? ›

Here's the deal: your activity on Facebook Dating doesn't stamp your active status on Messenger. That means you can chat with crushes without worrying that every friend on Messenger can see you're online.

References

Top Articles
Latest Posts
Article information

Author: Nathanael Baumbach

Last Updated:

Views: 6455

Rating: 4.4 / 5 (75 voted)

Reviews: 82% of readers found this page helpful

Author information

Name: Nathanael Baumbach

Birthday: 1998-12-02

Address: Apt. 829 751 Glover View, West Orlando, IN 22436

Phone: +901025288581

Job: Internal IT Coordinator

Hobby: Gunsmithing, Motor sports, Flying, Skiing, Hooping, Lego building, Ice skating

Introduction: My name is Nathanael Baumbach, I am a fantastic, nice, victorious, brave, healthy, cute, glorious person who loves writing and wants to share my knowledge and understanding with you.